My sincere condolences for your loss. The intense pain one feels after losing a loved one can seem unbearable. What helped me cope with the loss of my loved ones is the hope found at Revelation 21:4, there God promises that he will 'wipe out every tear from our eyes and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore.' This promise will come true. God will not forget Benito. And he will reunite your family with him in paradise. May this hope bring comfort to your family.